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Your advice has really helped me break free of my emotional affair
Hi Suzie, Just wanted to say thank you to you. I have been looking for advice of this kind for some months now. Your advice has really helped me break free of my emotional affair. For the first time in months, I feel better and happy and the fog has lifted, and I feel able to do what I secretly knew I had to do but just couldn't bring myself to break away for my thoughts and feelings. I realize now what a fantasy world I was living in and look forward to moving on. Thanks again.
I recently read about the woman whose husband had an “emotional affair”
I recently read about the woman whose husband had an "emotional affair" and Suzie's response which was brilliant. I experienced the same thing - only the other woman involved CALLED me - made up events/locations - until finally, we had to get a harassment order against her. Men need to know when to say "Enough is Enough". Think about what could or will happen to your family. Very scary situation for me and could have been for our children!
Your site is doing a lot more for me to help me heal than the therapist!
Suzie, Thanks so much! Your site is amazing. I went to therapy as well and your site is doing a lot more for me to help me heal than the therapist! Thanks again!
My husband has listened to the first one “How to Survive Her Affair” twice now
Thank you! I have sailed through ALL of the coaching sessions... and they are truly amazing for healing. I can't believe that I did what I did, and Suzie makes me feel human. Although I can't pinpoint the why I did it, which my husband really wants to know... "it just happened," unfortunately. We love each other so much and this just hurts. And yes, I knew in my gut and everything about me said that it was so wrong and yet I succumbed. My husband has listened to the first one How to Survive Her Affair twice now. He can relate to the insights that Suzie speaks about of how the betrayed must feel. I think it makes him feel somewhat normal too.
I feel truly better
Many thanks. I logged in and have listened avidly to Suzie. I feel truly better. She explained everything so well. I saw what I now need to do. I shall listen again in the morning. Thank you for your wonderful, powerful help.
It is amazing and is saving my sanity!
I am sooooo loving the home study sessions!! They have helped so much!! Even though these revolve around infidelity, which there hasn't been in our marriage, they are perfect for any situation. I have needed to learn to forgive and let go for most of my life!! I am 41 years old and hadn't learned this. It is amazing and is saving my sanity!! Thank you so much!! Love her voice, its so soothing and relaxing!! I just let a Doctor friend of my review to one of your sessions, Healing the Hurt, he is so inspired. He has had so much hate for his ex-wife, whom he has talked badly about in front of their kids. I stopped him and said to him he needed to let it go and forgive her, he was so angry and wouldn't look at me... within 1 hr, after listening to her, he is empowered and on your website now wanting more! Wanting to purchase anything he can of hers..... His name is (deleted for privacy). I'm sure you will be hearing from him shortly. Just wanting to give you the heads up. 🙂 Anyway, wanted you to know how much I am...
We both have the greatest respect for you
Suzie, we both have the greatest respect for you. God Bless and keep you in the palm of his hand - because that's how you made us feel while we were blindly trusting you to help us though this most devastating period of our lives, while maintaining privacy. Your keen understanding, caring attitude, profound spiritual and spot on intellectual wisdom, still continue to resonate within us. You are truly a gifted person and Coach. Thank you so very much.
I am free
Please let Suzie know that I greatly appreciate her series on how to end an affair. Taking her advice to heart saved my life, my family, my career and my financial future. I couldn't seem to end my affair after several attempts. It's been over three weeks since I've broken free and I feel so relieved and unburdened for the first time in a long time. I can sleep now, can look at my family without the horrible guilt hanging over my head. And I can look at myself in the mirror without self loathing. Suzie's wisdom and ability to effectively communicate that wisdom, is second to none. I will forever be grateful that I stumbled upon her website. My husband of 22 years and I are going through Passionate Monogamy and the Passionate Couple. We are very excited and are reconnecting in ways we never dreamed possible. Thank you for giving me the keys to freedom and helping me avoid making the biggest mistake of my life by leaving my husband and family. I now adopt a saying I heard Paul Newman say a long time ago about his own marriage "why would I settle for hamburger when I...
I love your site and have found it to be very positive and comforting
I was wondering when the online 30-day courses would be available. Also, when the road to reconciliation was going to come out. I love your site and have found it to be very positive and comforting during this difficult time of my life. Thanks!
I woke to the best morning I have had in well over a year
Suzie, Thank you, thank you, thank you. I woke to the best morning I have had in well over a year. We have done such amazing work over the last 2 days. I can't wait for day 3. Your insight, knowledge and personality, along with your tools you have provided me, have shortened a very difficult journey. Thank you for the bonus... a new perspective in dealing with my relationship with my daughter.
I was in tears today
Thank you so much Suzie... for everything. I was in tears today, but your articles and coaching sessions on ending the affair really help me. I appreciate the help more than words can express. Thank you!
The program is AMAZING
Thank you so much! The program is AMAZING. I have literally been nodding through the entire thing because I can't believe how accurately it describes me! I can't wait to get some of the other programs she has coming out. Can you let me know when Passionate Monogamy is ready? Thanks again!
Graceful Exits is Astounding
Hello Brad,I want to thank you again for "Graceful Exits". While each program has helped the subject of its title, "Graceful Exits" is astounding. It holds many clues about affairs which have helped me understand and come to grips with what has happened. I appreciate the clarity and logic Suzie offers. It is helpfully applicable to other spheres of life. Suzie explains the payback and de-motivation theory so well. I am the betrayed looking for answers and solace. "Graceful Exits" taught me so much about human nature that I feel equipped to really make a difference with my marriage and relationships in general. I now have better depth of understanding, compassion and will apply it to myself and family. It's as if the pieces of a puzzle are beginning to fit together. Thank you. All the best and many heartfelt thanks to you and Suzie.
Suzie’s a miracle worker. Please trust her to do the same with you
The day I discovered my husband had been cheating on me, was the day I thought my entire life was over. We had only been married for 7 months. The pure shock of that moment struck me like a bolt of lightning. Although the chances of being hit by lightning are much more slim. My first reaction was obviously: divorce. That's the only option at that moment, right? Well not exactly. After the initial bolt of electricity runs through your body you have to realize that you can survive after going through such a traumatic experience. You just can't go through it alone. You need someone like Suzie. Your life is not over, it's actually just begun. This intense current running through your bones can kill you if you let it. Don't. Fight. Fight the urge to just lay down and take it. Suzie showed me that the love I have for my husband, our marriage and our future was much stronger than all of this. Suzie's coaching and home study programs gave us the tools to pick up all the charred pieces and build something new again. Suzie's a miracle worker. Please trust her to do the same with...
He is following all of your advice
First, let me start out by thanking you for your wonderful website and all of your helpful, healing programs. You have been a daily companion of mine for several months now. To give you a little background on our situation, my husband and I have been married 25 years. I discovered about 6 months ago that he was having an affair with a woman from work. I had absolutely no idea anything was even wrong. It had been going on for about two months when I found out. To say I’m devastated would truly be an understatement. Like one of the women you refer to in your programs, we were the couple everyone referred to as “the happy couple.” He is following all of your advice. He ordered the complete home study library when we found your website. He is remorseful, and being transparent and he’s convinced he will never do anything like this again. I have moments where I believe him and I can see a strong, happy future together and then something triggers for me and I don’t have any idea if he’s being real with me or not and I completely break down. I didn’t have any...
It’s like I knew you!
Suzie, Thank you so much for your time and giving me the tools for my journey to neutral and internal peace. I'm so grateful for the universe for putting you in my path of healing. What amazed me the most was how quickly you not only understood me and my situation but how my mind was processing everything which then you were able to give me exactly what I needed. You were so easy to talk to as well. It's like I knew you! I went back to work after 5 weeks of being home and am not only putting the health issue behind me but also the situation that happened. It's like starting fresh with a new perspective on life. Please keep doing what you're doing, because you're absolutely amazing and are helping so many people like me who have no where else to go. I wish you and your family success, happiness and a lifetime of Love! With Deepest Gratitude
A doctor friend of mine listened to healing after an affair
A doctor friend of mine listened to your program on healing after an affair, he is so inspired. He has had so much hate for his ex-wife, whom he has talked badly about in front of their kids. I stopped him and said to him he needed to let it go and forgive her, he was so angry and wouldn't look at me… within 1 hr, he was empowered and on your website wanting more! Suzie's a miracle worker. Please trust her to do the same with you. She helped me rehabilitate after the jolt of my life.
Repairing Trust and Inspiring Honesty seems to be the missing brick
Thank you for the swift reply. The 4 sessions I have listened to so far are very helpful indeed. I have read other materials about marriage, but these sessions are by far the best: the advice given is specific, practical and the relief seems to be immediate (although not yet permanent). Sometimes it feels like Suzie is talking directly to me (us). I was just looking at Repairing Trust and Inspiring Honesty. It seems to be the missing brick we need right now to rebuild our relationship. Keep up the excellent work you do, you are truly life savers.
After the second time, I felt an honest calming feeling in my stomach
Recently, I came across the GoAskSuzie website and ordered the home-study course for betrayed partners. I listened to it twice in its entirety. After the second time, I felt an honest calming feeling in my stomach. I realized that it was not the affair itself that brought all this suffering to me but MY image that I attached to the event. For the first time in 3 months, I was able to get a good night's sleep and felt somewhat relaxed. Although my husband is still actively in the affair, I have been able to control the one thing that I could control, and that is my thoughts and forgiveness, which gets me through each day. I have learned to take it one day at a time. I do not have a doubt in my mind that with further coaching from Suzie, she will help both of us understand ourselves more, show us how to use the affair as a learning tool, keep our family together and rebuild our marriage and family for the better as God wants us to have. I have never heard of anyone who uses such inspirational, clear, truthful and meaningful words as well as Suzie Johnson....
Extremely helpful so far
My husband and I have found GoAskSuzie to be extremely helpful so far. I would (and have) recommended this site to all my friends who are having these types of issues. Thank you!
Please let Suzie know that she has changed my life completely
Please let Suzie know that she has changed my life completely. I have listened so many times that I can recite every single part word by word. Thanks so much! It has opened up a different world to me. In two weeks, I have already opened up two business that were on the back burner (due to the idiotic fantasies in my head). I do hope that other people can listen, I have tried to talk to other friends about it, but they are on denial. I hope it is not too late. God Bless and thanks.
I have listened to “Forgiving Infidelity and Releasing Pain” 15 times.
Suzie, I have gone through your Forgiving Infidelity and Releasing Pain session at least 15 times. It has really helped me. I want to talk about my situation, and about the best way to convey forgiveness. I almost don't know if my wife would believe me if I told her face-to-face. I think the best way would be face-to-face.
Suzie is amazing
Suzie is amazing. If she can't get through to someone, I don't think anyone can.
So grateful you recommended the 90-minute session with Suzie
I'm so grateful you recommended the 90-minute session with Suzie. We actually ended up going a little overtime which I really really appreciated. I think I got a lot out of this session. Suzie is magic. Her Wayward Rehab course continues to be very helpful as well. Thank you!! There will be a lot of work and challenges coming up to me in the next months but I am ready to face them. Again I'm very glad I made the choice to consult with Suzie. Please let her know that I'm very grateful for her insight and advice. Hope you guys have a great weekend. (it's labour day weekend up here in Canada)
We have found Suzie’s guiding principles to be a KEY component to our personal growth
I can only say the sessions in Suzie's Marriage Rehab course have been nothing short of completely enlightening. We have been attending both couples counseling and one on one counseling and we have found Suzie's guiding principles to be a KEY component to our personal growth, our recovery and the growth of our relationship. Along with our love of each other, our willingness to try and our own efforts, Suzie's insights have given us the tools and knowledge to not only get through the storm, but to start visualizing and crafting a future in which we live differently in ourselves and in our relationships. But, for us, Writing a list of specific needs, verbalizing them to ourselves and then to each other was key in allowing us to recognize our needs, understand them, understand how we felt when they weren't being met, understanding if they were genuine needs or those borne of fear based emotions and then understanding them in more of a global, less specific setting. Since a big part of our problem was not understanding our own needs, not being okay with actually having them, compounded by not asking for those needs to be met, I hope to...
Suzie showed me that the love I have for my husband, our marriage and our future was much stronger than all of this
The day I discovered my husband had been cheating on me was the day I thought my entire life was over. We had only been married for 7 months. The pure shock of that moment struck me like a bolt of lightning. Although the chances of being hit by lightning are much more slim. My first reaction was obviously: divorce. That's the only option at that moment, right? Well, not exactly. After the initial bolt of electricity runs through your body, you have to realize that you can survive after going through such a traumatic experience. You just can't go through it alone. You need someone like Suzie. Your life is not over, it's actually just begun. This intense current running through your bones can kill you if you let it. Don't. Fight. Fight the urge to just lay down and take it. Suzie showed me that the love I have for my husband, our marriage and our future was much stronger than all of this. She gave us the tools to pick up all the charred pieces and build something new again. She's a miracle worker. Please trust her to do the same with you. She helped me rehabilitate...
After reading your blog, I promised myself not to remain a victim
Thank you Suzie... my husband cheated on me for 4 long years. I knew I saw the red flags but I didn't realize there was such a term as "emotional affair". I thought it was just a strong physical attraction and it will go away. When I felt uncomfortable about the situation, I called the other woman and asked her why she is ruining my marriage. I asked my husband what I have done to deserve this? They finally stopped calling and seeing each other for a little more than a year now. I am still hurting. I still feel betrayed. I am now in shock, knowing that it was a full blown emotional affair. I feel so empty, but after reading your blog, I promised myself not to remain a victim; I will work on being the survivor. I want to go straight, not drive around in circles. You have been a great help. It's like you were talking to me directly. I was not reading, I was listening to you. Thank you for giving me the choices and widening my field of vision.
I had an emotional affair with another man
Suzie, This is the most helpful site I found, thank you sooooo much! I had an emotional affair with another man. I feel so alone in this problem because I have to find the way for forgiveness from my husband, and all the information you have is really helping me. God bless you!
It has been a blessing to have found these coaching sessions
The Marriage Rehab coaching sessions have been extremely helpful for both my husband and I so far. We have completed nearly all of our individual sessions and look forward to beginning the joint sessions now that we are both in a better place to do so. The most important takeaways for me so far have been learning how to remove the obstacles to forgiveness, learning how to overcome the fixated mind, and understanding that I am not a victim in this situation. It has been a blessing to have found these coaching sessions which provide a sense of hope for my husband and I, so that we can turn a negative situation into a positive one. Thank you all and keep up the great work!
I have been to a lot of counseling but having the recordings is even more helpful
I didn't want to call cause I was embarrassed, but found the coaching sessions so hopeful I had to reach out. I just wanted to say thanks to you and Suzie. I think I would lose my mind without these coaching sessions. I have been to a lot of counseling but having the recordings is even more helpful as I can stop listening to my own inner destructive voice and listen to Suzie. I go to them whenever I start spiraling with anxiety and helps so much. Best $199 I have spent for self-help and development. I have also had a bad history with relationships in general and has helped to change my overall paradigm. So from the bottom of my heart... thanks to you both.
Your website has been a saving grace for me
I have been married for 7 years. During this time I have had proof of my husband flirting on social media. Recently my intuition was telling me something is not right. So I investigated and managed to get a recording of him telling someone he missed them & was thinking of them. This revelation has torn my world apart... but what hurts most is that I have confronted my husband without the recordings & he refuses to admit & says to show him the proof. His phone is locked & on silent & recently he looked through mine to see if he found the proof. Your website has been a saving grace for me. Before I would have argued, but I am drawing strength & wisdom from your website and I have asked him to leave. He has packed his clothes & put them in garage but he hasn't moved. I have purchased your betrayed partner home study. I have also sent links for the wayward rehab course to my husband. I feel like your website and programs are truly heaven sent. It's okay to share my recommendation on your website. Thank you so much for taking the time to...
I truly enjoyed our session yesterday
Dear Suzie, I truly enjoyed our session yesterday… and I have hugely benefited from it! You’re a smart cookie 🙂
Thank you so much for all your help
Just wanted to let you know that we were able to successfully download the collection. So far, everything she is saying has been super helpful. Thank you so much for all your help. Please give Suzie my best regards. I sincerely appreciate her diligence and dedication for the intimate health of her clients.
Our goal is to make this the
Suzie's Marriage Rehab home study program has been great. So many insights that we would have not thought of on our own. Thank you for having these out there to help us along this journey. Our goal is to make this the "best worst thing" that has ever happened to us and with the help of the program, I see no reason why it won't be. Thanks again.
I just tried to book another session
Thank you for talking with me yesterday. I found it very helpful. I just tried to book another session, and you do not have anything until next Wednesday. Is there anything sooner? Please let me know if you have an earlier time to talk.
For the first time, I feel like we can survive
We are months into the process, but new to Suzie. For the first time, I feel like we can survive and be better.