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I have listened to “Forgiving Infidelity and Releasing Pain” 15 times.
Suzie, I have gone through your Forgiving Infidelity and Releasing Pain session at least 15 times. It has really helped me. I want to talk about my situation, and about the best way to convey forgiveness. I almost don't know if my wife would believe me if I told her face-to-face. I think the best way would be face-to-face.
I was wondering how I would make it through this
Thank you so much!! I have been having an emotional affair with a man I met for about a year now. I told him, and he reciprocated, that we were in love, should mates, we had found something amazing. But I was miserable. MISERABLE! It became a day to day struggle and we had so many ups and downs it was amazing we even stayed together, but we "loved" one another so much we'd always find our way back. After a series of events, mostly emotional, I ended things with him today. On a whim actually, I just new it was the right thing to do but had been so afraid to do it. I wasn't happy. When I got home, I cried like I had lost my husband and then I got online and found your program on ending the affair and wow, I honestly feel amazing. I was wondering how I would make it through this and if I had made a wrong decision but now....I'm not even sure I loved him. Cared for, sure, but maybe not love as the pure sense. Infatuation. And I am ashamed that I spent a year sneaking around with a married...
It’s the first time in a long time I feel secure with myself and our relationship
Thank you so much for all you’ve done for us. I really don’t know if we could have gotten through these tough times without you and your programs. Brooke has been loving and nice to me and there have been no awkward discussions about the past. We are communicating much better at work and at home. She deserves a lot of praise. I’ve tried to do so all week. I know there’s still work to do, but I’m ready for it. It’s the first time in a long time I feel secure with myself and our relationship and it really feels like I’m living more in the moment and not so much in the past or future. I can’t say thank you enough... coach. 🙂 As Brooke has said before, you truly are our angel. Have a great weekend!
Please let Suzie know that she has changed my life completely
Please let Suzie know that she has changed my life completely. I have listened so many times that I can recite every single part word by word. Thanks so much! It has opened up a different world to me. In two weeks, I have already opened up two business that were on the back burner (due to the idiotic fantasies in my head). I do hope that other people can listen, I have tried to talk to other friends about it, but they are on denial. I hope it is not too late. God Bless and thanks.
It’s like I knew you!
Suzie, Thank you so much for your time and giving me the tools for my journey to neutral and internal peace. I'm so grateful for the universe for putting you in my path of healing. What amazed me the most was how quickly you not only understood me and my situation but how my mind was processing everything which then you were able to give me exactly what I needed. You were so easy to talk to as well. It's like I knew you! I went back to work after 5 weeks of being home and am not only putting the health issue behind me but also the situation that happened. It's like starting fresh with a new perspective on life. Please keep doing what you're doing, because you're absolutely amazing and are helping so many people like me who have no where else to go. I wish you and your family success, happiness and a lifetime of Love! With Deepest Gratitude
Working with Suzie was a blessing
Please let Suzie know that her session with me was nothing short of amazing and comforting. Despite this small set back, I am still grounded and moving forward. She is truly a blessing and I feel fortunate to have had the professional services she provides. Thank you so much!
We both have the greatest respect for you
Suzie, we both have the greatest respect for you. God Bless and keep you in the palm of his hand - because that's how you made us feel while we were blindly trusting you to help us though this most devastating period of our lives, while maintaining privacy. Your keen understanding, caring attitude, profound spiritual and spot on intellectual wisdom, still continue to resonate within us. You are truly a gifted person and Coach. Thank you so very much.
I feel truly better
Many thanks. I logged in and have listened avidly to Suzie. I feel truly better. She explained everything so well. I saw what I now need to do. I shall listen again in the morning. Thank you for your wonderful, powerful help.
The program is AMAZING
Thank you so much! The program is AMAZING. I have literally been nodding through the entire thing because I can't believe how accurately it describes me! I can't wait to get some of the other programs she has coming out. Can you let me know when Passionate Monogamy is ready? Thanks again!
We have found Suzie’s guiding principles to be a KEY component to our personal growth
I can only say the sessions in Suzie's Marriage Rehab course have been nothing short of completely enlightening. We have been attending both couples counseling and one on one counseling and we have found Suzie's guiding principles to be a KEY component to our personal growth, our recovery and the growth of our relationship. Along with our love of each other, our willingness to try and our own efforts, Suzie's insights have given us the tools and knowledge to not only get through the storm, but to start visualizing and crafting a future in which we live differently in ourselves and in our relationships. But, for us, Writing a list of specific needs, verbalizing them to ourselves and then to each other was key in allowing us to recognize our needs, understand them, understand how we felt when they weren't being met, understanding if they were genuine needs or those borne of fear based emotions and then understanding them in more of a global, less specific setting. Since a big part of our problem was not understanding our own needs, not being okay with actually having them, compounded by not asking for those needs to be met, I hope to...
I think your website and the work you are doing is amazing!
Thank you for your prompt reply and solution. Many thanks! I think your website and the work you are doing is amazing!
She’s the first person to break through the pain of my spouse’s affair
Is there a way to share this with Suzie? I just want to say THANK YOU. She's the first person to break through the pain of my spouse's affair. What he did hurt terribly. I started self-destructing and giving up hope. I hated him and his lover. She lived with us for a while after the tornado -and this affair started before that time. A part of me died to learn this was going on two years, during the time that I was completing my master's degree and helping people in disaster recovery full time. She acted like she was my "friend" and he brought her to live with us knowing they were already having an affair. Unbelievable. I sat in a cemetery two Saturdays ago thinking about life and death, and I parked near an angel statue and played Suzie's mp3 on forgiveness. I think I played it 5 times before it started to sink in. As I looked across from me, I saw a tree, with what appeared to be 2 broken hearts. In that moment, I realized that maybe my husband was deeply hurting to have turned to another woman and he's probably hurting now from the...
Thanks to Suzie and her unique strategies for surviving infidelity
Hi Suzie & Brad, Yesterday, I also bought the programs Forgiving Infidelity and Releasing Pain and Repairing Trust and Inspiring Honesty in Your Marriage. Thanks to Suzie and her unique strategies for surviving infidelity, my husband and I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. The road we both want to take is clear now - we love each other and are both willing to improve our marriage as well as to grow individually. My husband took the responsibility for his mistakes and is willing to correct them, and I do believe that we will make it. Thank you from the heart for your wonderful site and pages and pages of support - there are no words to describe how invaluable all this has been for both of us.
For the first time, I feel like we can survive
We are months into the process, but new to Suzie. For the first time, I feel like we can survive and be better.
I don’t think there would be any hope left for my relationship if I hadn’t discovered you
Dear Suzie, First of all, I want to thank you for your amazingness! I don't think there would be any hope left for my relationship if I hadn't discovered you and your brilliant online coaching programs. And I am speaking from a lot of experience with majorly traumatic episodes in my life. Through all of those experiences I have researched and read profusely about the matters I was dealing with and psychological and spiritual approaches to dealing with them. This latest trauma of betrayal has been no different, and you are clearly THE expert in my view. Your voice, your language, your vision, your understanding, your compassion, even your Caribbean accent, all work together to form the perfect guidance for all parties involved in the affair. So thank you with all my heart.
I broke free about a month ago
Hi Suzie, Your site has been "extremely helpful" to me and I'm forever grateful for this service. I am married and had an affair with my "good friend"'s boyfriend (now fiancé) on and off for several years now. I always struggled with the guilt and betraying my friend. I attempted numerous times to end the affair only to run back into his arms. After reading the articles on your site and going through your End of the Affair program (twice), I broke free about a month ago. Thank you so much!
Healing the Hurt has made a huge impact on my life
Dear Suzie, Thank you so much for all your hard work. I finally finished listening to all of Healing the Hurt last night. This has made a huge impact on my life. Especially the part on "Ego"... wow! Talk about looking in the mirror. Sometimes it's hard to see the real person you are. Positive changes are being made in my life. Again, thank you!
Suzie’s programs and coaching have helped me more than I can ever explain
I had another session with Suzie I want to get access to the Marriage Rehab for couples and she said that because I had already purchased several, credit could be given for those purchased and I could get a new total price from you on the whole set for my husband and I. As an aside, you guys are awesome. You have been more than kind when I have called and spoken with you, and your wife is an absolute gem. Suzie's programs and coaching have helped me more than I can ever explain and I am so happy that I found your service. I hope you have a wonderful weekend! Thanks so much!
Graceful Exits is Astounding
Hello Brad,I want to thank you again for "Graceful Exits". While each program has helped the subject of its title, "Graceful Exits" is astounding. It holds many clues about affairs which have helped me understand and come to grips with what has happened. I appreciate the clarity and logic Suzie offers. It is helpfully applicable to other spheres of life. Suzie explains the payback and de-motivation theory so well. I am the betrayed looking for answers and solace. "Graceful Exits" taught me so much about human nature that I feel equipped to really make a difference with my marriage and relationships in general. I now have better depth of understanding, compassion and will apply it to myself and family. It's as if the pieces of a puzzle are beginning to fit together. Thank you. All the best and many heartfelt thanks to you and Suzie.
Extremely helpful so far
My husband and I have found GoAskSuzie to be extremely helpful so far. I would (and have) recommended this site to all my friends who are having these types of issues. Thank you!
My prayer is that our testimonial would encourage others on this journey
I am so impressed with your quick response any time I’ve reached out to you. When my wife and I get through all the mess she’s created (and I believe we will) I would love to explore ways to help you get this information out to others in need. I found the site via a Google search and told my wife about it. She agreed to purchase your home study program for couples, only because I asked her to do so. She felt like she was in no position to argue against the purchase. However, once she began to play the home study sessions related to the “wayward partner” she found the information there life-changing. She told me a couple of days ago that it seems every other sentence or two contains something of great value for her. I, too, have found the sessions in the Marriage Rehab course to be a tremendous help. I just finished going through the “Healing the Hurt You Didn’t Deserve” for about the 10th time. My wife and I are going away this weekend. I’ve really struggled with anger these last couple of days so reviewing the “Healing the Hurt…” program this morning has...
My husband has listened to the first one “How to Survive Her Affair” twice now
Thank you! I have sailed through ALL of the coaching sessions... and they are truly amazing for healing. I can't believe that I did what I did, and Suzie makes me feel human. Although I can't pinpoint the why I did it, which my husband really wants to know... "it just happened," unfortunately. We love each other so much and this just hurts. And yes, I knew in my gut and everything about me said that it was so wrong and yet I succumbed. My husband has listened to the first one How to Survive Her Affair twice now. He can relate to the insights that Suzie speaks about of how the betrayed must feel. I think it makes him feel somewhat normal too.
Graceful Exits is astounding
I want to thank you again for "Graceful Exits". While each program has helped the subject of its title, "Graceful Exits" is astounding. I am the betrayed looking for answers and solace. "Graceful Exits" taught me so much about human nature that I feel equipped to really make a difference with my marriage and relationships in general. I now have a better depth of understanding, compassion and will apply it to myself and family. It's as if the pieces of a puzzle are beginning to fit together. Thank you.
He looooved the Skype couples session
Suzie, You were amazing yesterday in focusing on his charisma awareness! He looooved the Skype couple's session. You are such an inspiration! I love you dearest Suzie 😉 Mmmwah!
I truly stand in awe in the amount of care both you and Suzie have put into the program
Wow! I truly stand in awe in the amount of care both you and Suzie have put into the program. I feel blown away with how much progress I've made because of the Betrayed Partner program, and to see that the people behind it are just as high of quality as the program and product itself truly amazes me. From the bottom of my heart, thank you so much! Please send my warm regards to Suzie as well. I am serious when I say you are both angels 🙂 Thank you.
I am so thankful I found this program
I am so grateful for this site and this help. I can't wait to be a walking testimony of this program. I've already listened to "First Aid" twice and enjoyed my Quiet 10 last night. I'm now on step two of the Betrayed Recovery Home Study course. I am so thankful I found this program. Thank you so much! I can't even describe the help Suzie is to me!! I'm excited to keep going.
Without Suzie’s help, we would have gone our separate ways
To the others out there: What can I say? My life was in shambles and the slew of bad choices I had made left me empty and miserable. In trying to save my marriage, I came upon Suzie on the web, and it was as if someone had left a light on in the dark. Desperate for any help. I booked a 60-minute call. Just in that first hour, I knew I found the help my wife and I needed. It was if she knew me. And her frankness and compassion made me feel at ease and open. More so, her philosophy and knowledge was unparalleled, I led my wife to her, and both of us got this feeling, not of a counselor, but of a friend. Suzie helped us down the road that would save our marriage. And I say help, not LEAD!!! Because, while she is there for you with knowledge and understanding, it is you that must do the work. The work is the key. And all I can say is that she will definitely help you get the answers you are looking for. Trust her and her method, everything she does has a reason, everything there...
It was by the grace of God that I found Suzie
I believe that nothing that happens in this world is a coincidence. It was by the grace of God that I found Suzie Johnson during one of the most challenging and difficult experiences of my life. My husband of 15 years betrayed my trust by having sex with another woman whom he known for only a couple days. I found out in a very shocking and hurtful way and was suffering tremendous emotional and mental pain when I found Suzie Johnson’s website. I was desperately scouring the internet for information about how to deal with infidelity when I found her words. Words that I so desperately needed to hear. It was as if my higher self was speaking to me through her words. Forgiveness – this was the word that jumped off the computer screen at me and the idea that caught my soul’s attention. Suzie points out on her website that true forgiveness is a sign of intelligence, strength and maturity. Despite my immense sadness and anger -- that was who I wanted to be. At that moment I knew I wanted to attempt the path of true forgiveness and felt an immediate feeling of relief in just the...
So grateful you recommended the 90-minute session with Suzie
I'm so grateful you recommended the 90-minute session with Suzie. We actually ended up going a little overtime which I really really appreciated. I think I got a lot out of this session. Suzie is magic. Her Wayward Rehab course continues to be very helpful as well. Thank you!! There will be a lot of work and challenges coming up to me in the next months but I am ready to face them. Again I'm very glad I made the choice to consult with Suzie. Please let her know that I'm very grateful for her insight and advice. Hope you guys have a great weekend. (it's labour day weekend up here in Canada)
You are what we are most Thankful for
Hi Suzie, We wish you and yours a beautiful Thanksgiving and Christmas Season! We are Thankful for you helping people like us ... who 'walked into ... pure hell ... and are trying to find our way back to the 'real love and respect' we had for each other. We are making progress... I know we still do love each other. I hope our love can handle all this necessary 'shaking off the dirt' that spit upon us, during his 'affairs-escape-rides'. And so many other affairs I am certain he has had and will not yet or ever admit - Thank you Suzie, for being available to help us find our way back to some sort of peace of mind. You are what we are most Thankful for. Your passion to help others is a gift we all will take with us and be grateful for....no matter what the outcome is. Thank you so much!
Forgiving Infidelity was exactly what I needed
Thank you, Suzie. Your Marriage Rehab course has been very helpful. Forgiving Infidelity was exactly what I needed. I am not a self-help kind of person, and when I was blindsided by my husband’s affair (a year and a half after it was over), I didn’t want to confide in anybody. My husband and I decided to work through this together because we love each other very much. It’s a very personal thing, and we wanted to try this before we headed to a marriage counselor. I found it to be insightful and tactful. Again, thank you so much. Your site and coaching programs are wonderful resources!
Your words have given me so much hope
My name is Christine and I've been with my high school sweetheart for nine years. We got pregnant young and have had many challenges since. Both my husband and I come from broken families and have had little to no support with anything at all. I've had no one to turn to for advice. Your words have given me so much hope for the future. I recently told him I wasn't in love with him and feel terrible for it. I know our love is still there. Once again thank you for the work that you do I will continue to read your articles and remind myself who I can become. Thanks so much!
The program has been my lifeline
Thank you so much! The program has been my lifeline and already has helped tremendously. Can't wait for my husband to begin! Thanks much!
We look forward to completing the all the healing and forgiving sessions
Your advice is so helpful to me
Good morning Suzie! It's funny but by reading so much on your site and going through the Marriage Rehab course, I feel like I already know you, and I want to tell you that your advice is so helpful to me. If not for finding your site I would have not made the progress I have made since finding out about my husbands affair. He feels the same way. Truly, we thank you for all that you do.
Super skeptical
I have to say I'm so glad I found this series. I was super skeptical of the cost and also I'm surprised that I can't find any third-party reviews of the program and website out there on the Internet. As a "modern consumer" I am used to beginning every purchase by first looking at the reviews whether this is on yelp, Amazon, consumer reports or any other verifiable unbiased site. This made it difficult for me to make the initial purchase of the Wayward Rehab online workshop, but since my partner seems to be in agreement about how helpful your site has been for her - I registered for the course and have now gone through the first hour. I'm already impressed - as well as uplifted - by the information contained within. I guess what I'm saying is it would be nice to somehow figure out a way to get some reviews out there. Thank you for creating such a helpful program!